Having a Hard Time Finding the Right Gift for an Elderly Parent?

Now that Mother’s Day and Father’s Day has just past, you may have realized it can be difficult buying gifts for a parent, grandparent or a relative living in an assisted living community.  Not only is mom, dad or grandma no longer running their own home but most likely they have a limited amount of space (they probably had to get rid of a lot before they moved).  In addition they have already received a lifetime of gifts, so there is not much they haven’t gotten at one time or another.

 

One meaningful thing you can do is personalize a gift.  For example if mom is always feeling chilly, you could give her a cozy throw with pictures of the grandkids or your family tree on it?  Check the Internet as there are several companies that specialize in making them.  Another thoughtful gift is a talking photo album that creates memories with both family pictures and voices.   

Giving your time is also something special your parent or grandparent is sure to appreciate.  It can be as simple as taking them on a trip to the local park or an ice cream parlor.  Even a scenic drive on a beautiful day provides the chance for a cozy, uninterrupted chat.  Additionally if their eyesight is failing, they may enjoy being read to.    

A lap desk is also a nice gift as it doesn’t take up much space and makes it easy to write a letter or read a book from the comfort of a chair.  Adult coloring books illustrated with places your loved one has traveled to or pictures of animals for animal lovers, flowers for gardeners, famous landmarks, etc., also make thoughtful gifts.  Add to that a set of colored pencils and markers to complete the gift.  Puzzles, crossword books are another option.   

Furthermore many elderly adults have trouble getting out so a personalized gift basket filled with their favorite soaps, hand creams and lotions or delicious edible treats such as chocolates or cookies are fun to get.  Or fill a basket with grippy socks, slippers and new pajamas.  Whatever gift you chose, you want your elderly parent or grandparent to know you are thinking of them. 

At MorningStar at Mountain Shadows, we represent the very best in senior living with a unique mission statement of “to honor, to serve, to invest.”  We have built a foundation on honoring God, valuing all seniors and selecting staff with a felt calling to serve to create a true “home” for residents at the foot of the majestic Rockies.  Please schedule a visit to experience firsthand our beautiful senior living community.