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The loss of a spouse is a devastating experience many seniors suffer. While the journey is unique and personal for each individual, there are commonalities. Getting real information and advice can at least help the person navigate some of the challenges they will face. For many seniors, they have spent decades with their partner and not only share a lifetime of memories and experiences, but have over the last few years relied on them for their primary companionship. So along with their grief, the person may feel isolated and lonely. Experts say it is important to give yourself the time to grieve. Seek support from family and friends who let you express your feelings and talk about your spouse. A grief support group is also helpful as you can connect with others who are going through a similar experience. If you find yourself unable to deal with your grief, consider seeing a therapist or grief counselor. It is important to remember you can still honor the love you feel for your spouse ...

As we age, it is important to plan for not only our financial well-being but future health concerns as many seniors have complex medical needs. When there is no plan in place, and a loved one’s medical condition worsens or an event such as a fall happens, more intensive care may be needed. Without prior planning, it can be overwhelming for both the senior or their family, and decisions have to be made in a rush. Studies show around 80 percent of older adults have at least one chronic disease. Many of these diseases require personalized treatments to minimize complications, and require multiple, daily medications. Along with managing chronic conditions, senior care should also include preventive measures and lifestyle support. This includes things like routine health monitoring, exercise and healthy diet; as well as mental health support and social network to ward off depression and anxiety that can interfere with quality of life. Furthermore, senior care can offer the person assista...

Like with most things in life, it is nice to have time to plan and review options before making a decision but sometimes things happen in a senior’s life where they need to make a quick decision regarding lifestyle changes. This may be due to a recent fall or a change to their medical or physical health. As senior living communities offer different services and amenities, discuss beforehand what things are important to your parents or other loved ones for their comfort level, enjoyment and well-being. Remember to factor in location as it is vital to have a place easy for family and friends to visit. Other things to consider are wellness programs and activities (do they match up well with your parent’s interests), levels of care and caregiver training, and staff-to staff-resident ratio. The internet comes in handy for previewing communities regarding their location, philosophies, services and price. However, before a decision is made as to where to move an elderly parent, it is importan...

Research shows our bodies start losing muscle mass after the age of 35. The process quickens once females turn 65 years and males turn 70. However, the National Institute on Aging (NIA) says strength training cannot only help us maintain muscle mass and bone density longer but improve mobility and overall functional independence as well as reduce the risk of falls. It is a safe and effective way to ward off age-related decline and increase one’s healthy years. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends at least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity physical activity each week and at least two days of strength training. While you may think you don’t have time to go to a gym to workout, experts say many strength training exercises can be done at home using your own body weight, resistance bands and light weights. For adults dealing with obesity, better weight loss results can be achieved with a combination of strength training, aerobic exercises and dietary changes. Bef...

Many of us experience a mid-morning or late afternoon slump in terms of energy and need a little bite of something to give us a lift. While experts say snacking can be a good thing, it is important to do it with healthy options. They emphasize the best snacks are low-sugar and nutrient-rich; and provide energy as well as support overall health. Snacks rich in fiber and protein help keep us feeling full. Foods to avoid are ultra-processed and high in calories, fat, sodium and added sugar. Some examples of healthy snacks: smoothies. They can be made with fresh greens, your choice of milk and fruit. Along the same line is a cup of low-fat yogurt topped with fresh or frozen, thawed berries. If you don’t like yogurt, a cup of cottage cheese with fruit is a good alternative. Kale is one of the healthiest leafy, green vegetables; and kale chips are a fun way to enjoy it. Moreover, they are very easy to make on your own. Prep carrots, celery and other raw veggies in advance to dip into humus o...

While your doctor will have plenty of questions to ask you during your next appointment, experts say there are questions you should be ready to ask. The following can help you stay healthy or get well quicker. For example during your next annual physical, ask if you need any medical screenings. Also should you be taking any vitamins or supplements? Dr. Jessica Edwards, founder and CEO of Zara Medical, a hybrid primary care practice, says the answer can be different for each person. She explains if you are a vegetarian you may need a vitamin B12 supplement or if you live in an area without much sun, you may need vitamin D, and so forth. If you have a less common condition, ask how many people the doctor has treated with your disease. If not many, inquire about seeing a specialist who is familiar with the condition. This is also a good time to ask about treatment options and side-effects of any medication you are being prescribed. Moreover, what is the next step if your symptoms do not i...

Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia can come on slowly but as the disease progresses, a spouse or other family members may find themselves struggling to communicate with the person. It is important to remember while symptoms vary and every person’s progression differs depending on the stage and type of dementia they have, a sad reality is many families have difficulty finding effective ways to communicate. Experts say the best piece of advice is to be “patient with ourselves as caregivers.” Like other challenges in life, it may require you to tailor your communication in a way that can help you connect with the person, while at the same time, respecting their dignity. However Carol Podgorski, a professor of psychiatry at the University of Rochester, warns, “Dementias are progressive and degenerative brain diseases that can last for over 10 years. Communication strategies vary by the stage of the disease as well as other factors, including language abilities, sensory function, relat...

The Medical News Today cites recent surveys showing Americans are vulnerable to misinformation via social and mass market media as well as from friends and family. As this can include critical medical information, they warn while there is a fount of easily accessible content, there are things we can do to protect ourselves from inaccurate advice. According to a 2024 survey from Healthline, more than half of American respondents said they got health information via social media, while another 32% said they turned to family, friends, and colleagues for health advice. To help empower us to make good medical decisions, Medical News Today spoke with Dawn Holford, PhD from the School of Psychological Science at the University of Bristol, U.K. who specializes in the psychology of communication and decision-making. Holford suggests people double check information with more than one reliable source to look for consensus across the board. She also adamantly says it is up to medical new websites...

Way too often older adults have a fear about assisted living that is based on misinformation. While we acknowledge a big change for a senior as it may mean leaving behind a beloved family home, it doesn’t mean an end to their privacy and independence. If the time has come when a parent may be safer and better cared for by the many services offered by assisted living , adult children can be supportive by getting the facts. Most communities offer private suites in a range of configurations. At MorningStar of Littleton, our 65 assisted living suites are located over three-stories in studio and one-and-two-bedroom configurations. Residents have a choice of size and location preferences in smartly-designed studios ranging from 327 to 475 square feet to our largest two-bedroom units from 704 to 730 square feet. Each apartment has its own door and a lock; and is the resident’s very own cozy sanctuary. If a parent’s fear is losing their independence, let them know the goal of our community is...